Hi,
Firstly, I'm completely open to suggestions and possibilities; I'd love to speak to anybody who has experience in this area, or have been through something similar.
I am 33 years old and have never had a relationship. Never had a boyfriend, a fiancé, a husband.
I really don't fully understand why, but at the same time I think that I do understand - if that makes sense.
At school, I was bullied, quite badly - by boys. I had no problem whatsoever with female friends and I still don't struggle in this area. (I also have no problem with male friendships.) I do, however, suspect that somewhere in the back of my mind I had this perception of how I was seen by boys - as a joke, as the girl they called names but didn't fancy, and that stayed with me on some level.
Please don't think that I have been dwelling on a bad experience at school for the last twenty years - but I always thought I'd meet someone. And, I never have. Tried online - no joy.
There's quite a lot of other stuff but I don't know how much to include, how relevant it is.
Can anybody help?
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relationshipwilderness · 12/01/2014 15:26
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