DH suffers from anxiety. He's on mirtazepine which does help but he still gets very wound up about stuff, even things that are actually very trivial. He finds it hard to cope with a lot of things. He also gets obsessed/overly worried about health and death. He can also be very irritable and reacts badly to anything he perceives as criticism. It does make him quite difficult to live with sometimes and I worry about him a lot, particularly about how he will cope when DC1 is born in january.
He was referred for CBT a year ago and was told that there would be a year wait, but now it appears his referral has been lost somehow, so we're going back to the GP to ask for a re-referral, but he doesn't want to have to wait another year and agrees that he needs some kind of counselling/CBT to help him learn to deal with stuff. I will be going with him because he finds it hard to talk about how he feels at the doctor so although I won't talk for him we both think that having someone who is calm and able to explain that he needs some help sooner than a years time might be helpful.
I already deal with our finances and most of the 'organisational' side of things because he finds it too hard. Is there anything I can do to help and support him?
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Help me to support DH
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Madratlady · 27/06/2013 12:44
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