I'm really worried about DH - he is prone to bouts of 'blackness' but is such a typical man, he refuses to do anything about it. Just lately, things have got worse and worse - he is constantly worried about money (we are struggling but there really is very little that can be done), he has a constant headache, is reluctant to eat and is just full of gloom. Last night was awful - he just sat there complaining about his head, refusing to take any painkillers (doesn't like them), kept going to the computer and looking at bank statements etc and just looks like he's about to explode. I can't seem to get through to him that a) spending his life like this is NOT going to change anything and b) he really does need some help. I just called him and said look you need some solutions to this to which he barked 'three months on a desert island and all our money problems gone - yes who will do that?' in a really not nice way. It's not as though we are completely on the poverty line - we have old debts we're paying and obviously the cost of living is rocketing, but the mortgage and bills are always paid - it's just those unexpected things that always turn up and we don't have any 'luxuries' - ie we never go out, takeways?? what are they! and then the children keep growing (damn them!!) What can I do ?? :(
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