My husband has suffered on and off with depression for many years. He has never sought professional help and in the past has coped by using maruana, alcohol and just general denial. He currently only has one joint once a week (I know this is all) He does have a tendency to drink a little too much (say, about 2 cans a night) His coping strategies vary in that he does not drink all the time and definitely would not consider him to have a substance or alcohol problem.
However, after a tricky couple of weeks the depression has reared its head once more. I managed to get him to admit how he feels. He is plagued with feelings of self loathing and despair. This time he has finally admitted that he has been having fairly consistent suicidal thoughts and really feels hopeless. He went to the GP today but played down his situation and came out of the surgery with a diagnosis of very mild depression, and a self referral form for counselling.
My dilemma is this; how do i get him to be honest and face up to this? He thinks he can bury it and pretend he is ok when he is clearly not. He is reluctant to talk to me let alone a professional. He readily admits that if he saw a professional he would very likely lie to pretend he better when he is not.
How can I help him?
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Husband suicidal, but reluctant for help. Really need advice..
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fixarupa · 04/12/2012 12:26
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