I was diagnosed with depression when I was 14. Had my first major episode when I was 17 (by major, I mean I completely ceased to function for about 6 months, couldn't leave the house, mum had to give up work to keep me on suicide watch). Recovered, finished my A Levels, went to uni. Had my second major episode at the age of 19, had to drop out of my degree and move home again, basically the same mess as before. Recovered, decided not to go back to uni and went into a full time job instead. Started making plans to move out and live on my own for the first time. In between "episodes" I still suffer from depression, but I can function as long as I keep taking my AD's.
Now I'm 21 and recognising the signs that I'm heading towards another major breakdown. I'm petrified that soon I will be too unwell to work - I'm already making loads of mistakes at work because my concentration and memory are getting worse, and am massively anxious about going in each day.
I dread the thought of losing all the progress I've made and having to start again from scratch. Even more, I dread the continuation of this pattern - is this what I can expect my life to be like forever? Spend a year or two building a life, have a MH crisis and lose it all, spend up to a year recovering, start rebuilding a life, have another crisis... repeat ad nauseum. What kind of life is that?
So I don't know why I'm starting this thread... maybe I'm hoping that someone will come along and tell me they've been through this kind of cyclic depression and recovered? Or share how you deal with long term mental illness, perhaps? Or wave a magic wand and fix whatever is fundamentally wrong with my brain, but I'm thinking that is unlikely.
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I don't want to live my whole life like this
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AndThenTheBassetHoundWokeUp · 02/12/2012 19:02
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