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Mumsnet Discussions: Extra-curricular activities : should a gym club just assume it's ok for their christmas display to involve spending £25 per child on new leotards? (9 messages)
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Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By hatwoman on Sun 16-Nov-08 12:34:58
I think this is really out of order. firstly they have a club leotard - but they choose not to enforce it for normal lessons. (nor do they warn newcomers that they might need one for other occasions) so the result is everyone has perfectly good leotards - but a complete mixture of colours and styles. so one month before Christmas and their christmas show (which is costing £10 per ticket to see) they annouce that dd1's class all need club leotards (£25), plus a black long-sleeved t-shirt (dd hasn't got anything black so that'll be another fiver and, I expect, a painful shop as it's not the kind of thing you see much of) plus a mask of some sort that the club will make and charge us for (? let's guess £3). dd2 needs a new leotard too (another £25). so this whole thing is costing near enough £80. plus an inordinate amount of practices and performances - it's basically taking up the whole of every weekend between now and Christmas. not that we had anything else in mind...

thank the lord we're moving soon and therefore leaving. I know we could leave anyway and that this is all optional and our fault etc etc but it does niggle me - they are effectively excluding people from their activities so I wanted to get it off my chest and have a whinge.

The things that bugs me most is the thoughtlessness - just a small note when you start saying "we don;t enforce club leotards for classes so if you already have a leotard no need to buy a new one. We do however use them for performances so if you do buy a new one we recommend you buy a club one" - would be so easy and would save a whole load of people £25-odd quid (more if they have more than one child).
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By hatwoman on Sun 16-Nov-08 12:35:53
blush that was a bit long...
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By potoftea on Sun 16-Nov-08 12:38:17
I agree that its thoughtless and unfair.
But I think its also common. People running clubs and shows seem to forget that it's not necessarily number one in everyone's life, and that they may have other priorities and commitments.

I've had this recently and have had to buy a club sweatshirt and black shoes for a performance that my child will most likely never wear again.
And no one wants to complain in case they look mean or poor.grin
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By UniS on Wed 19-Nov-08 20:58:24
for plain colour Ts both short and long sleeve try a shop that do T-shirt printing ( for corporate/ schools type wear) I get good quality plain Ts for a small child that way. Most shops seem to only sell Ts with logos and pictures.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By MollieO on Wed 19-Nov-08 21:14:58
What have they done other years? I would have thought part of the fun of being in a club is the associated uniform - eg brownies etc. It would be unfair if you weren't aware there was a uniform before you signed up.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By MadamDeathstare on Wed 19-Nov-08 21:17:27
It does sound thoughtless. If you are leaving, you could point it out to them as you go out the door (in a nice way). We had this with the DTD's dancing class. If they wanted to be in the recital they had to buy a horribly expensive costume. Fortunately they didn't have to be in the recital and didn't want to be.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By RTKangaMummy on Wed 19-Nov-08 21:20:32
primark do plain black t shirts for about £2
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By RTKangaMummy on Wed 19-Nov-08 21:21:14
there is a company online called DANCE DIRECT that are quite good
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By deste on Sat 03-Jan-09 22:07:54
Cant you advertise for a second hand one. Children are always growing.


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