My 10 DS failed the Grade 6 exam in June with a score of 92. We are fine with it and think of resitting Grade 6 exam in Nov/Dec 2014, however, his piano teacher suggested him to choose another 3 new grade 6 exam pieces and take the exam in June 2015. She said it is the best practice to go for three new songs based on her more than 30 years teaching experiences. She said there are two reasons: 1. my son will get bored with the three old songs if he does them in Nov/Dec again. 2. he will lose confidence if he does the three old songs.
I respect her professional opinion, however personally I could not agree with her. Both the piano teacher and I know DS is not well prepared for grade 6 as we moved overseas last summer and had 3 different piano teachers in the past 12 months . DS started Grade 6 preparation with his school piano teacher last October (DS did Grade 5 theory this February as well). DS feels that the school teacher does not give enough critical and constructive suggestions as she always says he is good etc. Therefore in APRIL, he started to go to a private institution for piano class. Sadly, his new teacher said he was badly taught by his school piano teacher and suggested DS to postpone the exam to Nov/Dec. I had a discussion with DS and decide to continue with the exam in JUNE (anyway his school teacher has enrolled him for the JUNE exam already.). Also DS is a tough and confident boy and he thinks it will not hurt him even if he fails it in June (which his new teacher is strongly against as she thinks it is not good to fail a grade exam as children will lose confidence).
DS had one lesson with another teacher in the same music institute the week before the exam as his teacher is on sick leave. That teacher said he is fine and could pass (she has been an examiner for long time). Anyway DS got only 92 (he always got merit or distinction before) with very low score in sight reading and oral (less than 1/3 of the full mark), even though he always tells me he is best at sight reading (but immediately after the exam, he told me he did very bad in sight reading as that specific piece is really hard with huge jump) and oral.
DS wants to do more songs outside of the exam pieces. He loves to play new songs by himself. I am thinking of letting him take a break from the exam pieces and practice other new songs. Then he could retry the three old pieces later this year and go for the exam in Dec. From now to Dec, he could do other songs and pays more attention to sight reading, oral etc. I just do not want him to always do exam songs; if we follow the teacher's suggestion, three new exams songs are still exam songs...I am thinking of letting him do the Grade exam in Dec with 3 old songs rather than 3 new songs in June next year. However, I do not want to offense or piss off the teacher? I have had quite a few disagreements with the teacher since April. She is against digital piano and was suggesting to buy an upright piano. However, I bought a new Yamama digital piano last Oct and have an upright piano back home in London, so not in the mood to buy another upright piano as we are not even sure how long we will stay overseas. She suggested to delay the exam to Dec, I insisted my son to go for the exam in June and he failed... Now, 3 old songs in Dec or 3 new songs next June? Do you agree with what the teacher suggests? I have to admit that I know little about piano and could be totally wrong, but I know my son and I want him to rise where he falls...
Sorry for the long post, any suggestions are highly appreciated.
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piano teacher insists my son to choose another three news exam songs after he failed Grade 6, I want DS to stick to the 3 old songs, what to do?
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jessie2004 · 27/06/2014 10:49
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