I expect DS to be offered a place at Beavers soon, age 6y11months. I had thought to decline because:
he is: hot-headed, volatile, argumentative &
inclined to pretend-punch and play-punch, especially if over-excited, often taken badly by the recipient
very emotional, basically a big cry baby if stressed
prone to hitting, shouting, throwing things when cross (is often suddenly cross)
especially if he's lost any kind of competition (is very competitive)
hasn't mentioned the idea of Beavers in a long time, anyway
I asked on another parenting forum and they said please DON'T take him if there's any risk he'll hit somebody
I'm afraid he'll antagonise other children, parents and helpers
so badly he could even be kicked out of the group, which would be horrible for his self-esteem
we've had plenty these types of problems with him at other ExC activities
we're not even religious
I am half-reconsidering because someone who runs a Beaver group (too far from here, alas) has briefly met DS many times, & says that her group copes well with kids with SN, I should give it a try. She is very much a glass half-full type person, though, and I'm not sure that's realistic to expect of others! But then I guess I still cling to this stupid fantasy that he could make friends and build confidence if going to Beavers were a success.
What are behaviour expectations of Beavers? To put things in context, I'm pulled aside by DS's Teacher maybe once every 3-4 weeks about a behaviour issue, and I know they are dealing with some things in house without me being notified (such as sometimes keeping him in some lunchtimes for rough play). DS was taken off a behaviour IEP a month or 2 ago.
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