This is horrible. I feel sick.. I dont know if I'm reading too much into this.
My ds is 13. Dd is 3. They are like best friends and they have a good laugh together. She gets really excited when ds comes home from school and they run around having fun.
Last year on holiday, dd said something about ds touching her on her bum while I was changing her nappy. But then she says a lot of funny things. She hates me putting nappy cream on her and gets upset. Once I remember going in to ds's room because I heard her cry (they regularly cuddled up in bed for an hour before she goes To bed) he looks startled and acted withdrawn as if is caught him doing something. Again I might be imagining things.
Nothing else has happened for six months until today she put a stick between her legs and walked around laughing saying 'I've got a bum like ds, it's big and fluffy' !!! How on earth does she know what one looks like? We're all very private about getting changed and stuff. She doesnt go to a nursery where she might have seen one so how on earth? ....
Ds withdrew immediately and glanced at me looking worried I noticed from the corner of my eye. He stared at the tv and has been very quiet since. As if he knows something? He did say "how would she know that!" Before going very quiet.
So this is where I am now. What do you think? I would hate to accuse him of something so terrible and split up the family but also if something was happening I need to know
Obviously if he was doing something I would have to protect my dd. but they're so happy together it's hard to think ds would do such a thing.
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BarryManilowsNose · 30/03/2014 20:51
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