I have been friends with this girl for 5 years. She is 26, I am 24. She has a deformity which means she has trouble walking and also using her hands and arms. This may seem mean but is intended only to help you understand the situation better, she is unattractive physically due to benign tumours which have grown on her body and which has slightly distorted her face and body structure. <br>She is a sweet girl who I think just has low self esteem due to her inability to attract men. She has never been asked out of kissed.<br>I introduced her to a friend of mine called Adam. He's quite an attractive man and as harsh as this is I think she would love to have a boyfriend of any kind so was probably hoping he would like her. He did tell me previously that he had no interest in her in that way but was happy to be friendly to her. <br>We made a few drinks one night. She isnt much of a drinker but maybe she was nervous because she ended up having a load to drink. We both told her to calm down but it was too late. She was really quite drunk. She went to the bathroom and came out with her trousers off but underwear on. Because of her disability she was unable to put her trousers back on so I just put her into my bed.<br>Adam and I then chatted for a few hours before he left. I locked the door behind him and went to bed. In the morning I thought my friend would leave but she stayed and I said I was going for breakfast with Adam and she could come if she wanted. She agreed and we had breakfast.<br>She then left for the train. It was then that she rang me to say she was very concerned as she had strange discharge and felt like she'd been raped! I said do you have any cuts or bleeding? She said no but smelt like sex.<br>I told her there was no way at all Adam could have done anything as he was with me the whole time before he left and neither of us were even tipsy and the door was securely locked. This wasn't good enough for her and so I said that if she really believed Adam had assaulted of raped her than to go the Doctor or Police. She did neither. I wouldn't have lied to protect Adam. She isn't a boyfriend, just a friend like she is.<br>I did tell Adam about the allegations and he was devastated. But he's a good guy so said it was probably subconsciously that she wants to be sexually attractive and wanted to believe he wanted sex with her. Either that or she knows he's done nothing and is lying. <br>My theory is that she is very vulnerable, never had been drunk before, and when she woke up with just underwear on she panicked and thought the worst. I don't think she is lying for attention or knowingly lying. I think she genuinely worried something had happened. <br>Adam says he doesn't mind if I stay friends with her but he doesn't want to be anywhere near her for obvious reasons. <br>I really don't know what to do. While I could see past this incident, one thing still bothers me. Surely it is wrong to accuse a man of raping you without any good evidence. Even if she did have a 'feeling' she had been raped?<br>And can you really have a feeling of being raped?!<br>In my teenage years I've been drunk and woke up in strange beds but would never, ever have accused anyone of raping me even if part of me worried I'd had sex. Even if I had had sex I would think I'd just got too drunk and agreed to do it. This is why it doesn't sit right with me what she has done. Also, if she worried he'd raped her, why on earth go for breakfast with him in the morning?!<br>Could anyone try and shed some light on what could be going through her mind or why she might have done this?<br>I feel the fact she is not used to parties or being drunk has a big part to do with it. But accusing a man of rape is so very serious.