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Who do I speak to re a chap that is not meant to live next door

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seatfor5 · 08/06/2013 17:05

The guy next door is not meant to live there so much so that a foster carer takes his 2 year old every Saturday to a play centre for him to have visitation - the little boy was strapped back about a hour ago and they are now all in the garden having a BBQ! The reason he is not meant to live there is because he is under investigation for abuse of a 5 year old girl :( my question is who do I tell he lives there as the stupid women also has a daughter of 12 (which is the main reason he is not meant to be there)

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burberryqueen · 08/06/2013 17:08

phone the non emergency police number?

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burberryqueen · 08/06/2013 17:08

or it could all be nasty gossip? i mean do you know for sure or it is hearsay?

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LoopyLooplaHoop · 08/06/2013 17:09

The police.

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fubbsy · 08/06/2013 17:13

Phone your local social services and ask to speak to the duty social worker.

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lljkk · 08/06/2013 17:14

What Burberry said.

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fubbsy · 08/06/2013 17:19

If they are informed, the police and/or social services can look into it. If it is just unfounded gossip, they will take no further action. If the child is at risk, they will be in a position to do something about it.

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HeySoulSister · 08/06/2013 17:19

where are your 'facts' from?

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mumfiftyfour · 08/06/2013 17:23

your Local Authority Children's Services Department will have a telephone number for the emergency duty team, they will react to your call, this is THAT serious.

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pumpkinsweetie · 08/06/2013 17:26

If you have the definate facts, call social services

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TheRealFellatio · 08/06/2013 17:26

Do you mean that he lives with the mother of his two year old, who takes him to the contact centre to maintain the illusion that they are not longer together when in fact, they are?

Or is the two year old someone else's child?

Is the five year old child his?

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TheRealFellatio · 08/06/2013 17:26

sorry for typos

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LIZS · 08/06/2013 17:28

If he is breaching a court order then police.

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seatfor5 · 08/06/2013 20:03

I have the info from his sister in law and I stopped the foster carer in the street today after she returned the 2 year old to the mother - Its not even the mother that is taking him to see his Dad its a foster carer! I said to the lady have you just returned him from seeing his Dad her reply was "umm" I then said that the sister in law had told me that social workers take the little boy to the play center to see his Dad and her reponse was " That is what I have just done" I then told her that he lives there! she said she would pass that info on - so I am quite sure he should be there!

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seatfor5 · 08/06/2013 20:05

I dont think the 5 year old is his (she is 9 now and has told her Mum a few months ago) I have no idea what order he has again him just that he should be there!

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