Hi , this is my 1st post and im not sure anyone can help.Im just so upset and scared i don't know what to do.My ex wife left me 3 years ago , we had 3 children ,and she has gone onto have child with another man who she has now left. The problem is she has become a porn star and got into swinging and i don't know what to do.She is in a complete mess,talks about suicide,but still manages to hold down a job as a part time nurse!My kids are 15 ,10 and 9.The 2 youngest live with me all the 70 % of the time , but they don't like going back to her and now ive found this out neither do i!My 15 year old stays with her most the time as she is allowed to do what she likes!I still love my ex and care for her well being, but what do i do?she says i cant do anything.I said i would go to court to have the kids full time to scare her to stop ,but she said i wouldn't win and she would still have the kids when she wanted,so she can do what she likes.I had a nervous breakdown when i found out about her affairs and lost my job too.Im now suffering terrible anxiety.Im really worried.Help.
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