Help! Feeling bullied today after boss with raised voice got very agitated about my attendance. Also said 'You said you were leaving, why havent you gone yet?' and just before I left work sent me an email saying 'tell us now whether you are going to put in another flexible application or resign with a months notice'.
It starts as a very old story, where I am commuting long distance and have a toddler. I wrote a flexible working application to come back from maternity leave that I would work at home mondays and thursdays and take wednesdays off until Easter. Unfortunatley that left wednesdays a bit open and it turned out that on the first day back at work I had signed that I would come in on Wednesdays after Easter.
That completely didn't sink in with me at all and after Easter I just carried on with working at home Wednesdays. ONE AND A HALF YEARS later bosses suddenly noticed and decided I had to come in Wednesdays to 'drink cups of tea with people'.
We had some pretty stressful discussions with HR about whether my not coming in on Wednesdays constituted an implied contract and I eventually ended up signing a new contract with me coming in on wednesdays.
I tried it but honestly just felt like a zombie and so started taking wednesdays off annual leave. Did that before xmas, then got new annual leave entitlement in Jan so carried on (with written boss agreement) taking wednesdays off until Feb. Briefly have then discussed taking wednesdays off unpaid leave and got an email saying that should be fine, we should have a discussion about it and I will check it with HR. Do admit we hadn't had the discussion, but wednesday came round and I assumed it had gone through as it didn't sound like a big deal. Then got a very irate boss today with ranting and raving.
Have two other bosses who are away at the moment.
I have provable work output which seems fine...
Now been told am not allowed to take Wednesdays off any more, either paid or unpaid.
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chocbiscuits · 14/02/2008 22:10
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