Sorry - it will be long but desperate for some advice for DH from anybody with experience dealing with of bullying/harassment at work.
Has worked as a sales advisor for same company for nearly two years. About six months ago was asked to deputise as team manager for his boss during annual leave. He ran up against a junior manager (not in team but attached as kind of "customer service" type person) who obviously felt she should be running show. Kept things civil but obviously got up her nose a bit.
A month later, received customer complaint (complaints routed via junior mgr - let's call her "A"). DH asked for written details so he could appeal - took about 3 weeks to get to him. Appealed within 5 days, decision took three months - complaint upheld.
In the meantime, he's been penalised salary wise and now makes less per sales unit despite still achieving same level of sales. Appeal decision came thru 2 wks ago (3 months after complaint). A asked for a review mtg on Monday - DH now has 2 wk period where he must not incur another complaint or further disciplinary action will be taken. DH asked to take review form away (headed "Informal counselling session"), noted couple of concerns (delay since complaint etc.). A now saying another meeting needed Friday as he hasn't signed the form just his attached sheet - A saying that she, his line manager and DH need to all sign form at same time.
Line manager saying DH is overreacting. DH v upset - feels bullied and harrassed. I have been telling him to comply with process and we will raise grievance after but now don't know what to tell him. Should he go to this mtg? Should he sign the form? Can they force him?
Am actually very upset on DH's behalf - woman is EVIL and would like to tell DH to smack her in the chops but would appreciate some more constructive advice....
Thanks in advance to anyone who actually managed to read this (apologies for typos, nonsense as I'm actually shaking as I type as I'm so upset [
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Urgent advice needed - bullying at work
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Cashncarry · 15/11/2006 11:36
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