I work term time only in NHS and am a single mum. The summer hols are coming to an end and I am dreading returning to work. I feel physically sick, anxiety attacks and poor sleep. I am tearful and when I do sleep work related themes are in my dreams. I have had my current line manager for about a year and have been to the area lead twice about her and to request to be managed by someone else. He is basically dismissive and has told me its a 'personality clash' and to get on with. He says she is the only one available to manage me. He actually manages the other colleague in my small team.
I have considered going to HR or my union but she is very clever and there is nothing concrete I can actually complain about apart from a few personal comments. It is what she says but also tone of voice, veiled threats, manipulation, constant questioning, complete rigidity and adherence to policy and procedure. She regularly reduces me to tears in supervision and is both patronising and undermining. She micro-manages me (I am the only person she manages) and is obsessive and controlling. She spends time constructing charts relating to my clinical work and admin tasks for instance. She constantly checks up on me. I used to love my work but now my confidence is rock bottom. I am even considering going off sick because I can't deal with it and it feels like there is no support within the organisation. My qualification is the culmination of 9 years training and I have worked in my post for ten years but I am ready to give it up and walk away. Just writing this is bringing me to tears. I feel so trapped and powerless. What should I do?
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I think I am being bullied by my manager
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freeish · 30/08/2014 10:09
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