I've noticed there are quite a few MNers on here who work in academia, or used to, and I was hoping I might pick your brains for some advice .
I'm a final year PhD in a modern languages/cultures department. I'm due to submit in October this year and should manage to do so. I'm at the stage now where I'm looking for academic jobs, but there are very few out there. I'm wondering, though, if academia is even right for me. I love teaching, but not so much research. I really enjoy the small bits of research I need to do to teach, but would always rather be working with students than alone, researching. I would rather spend an hour with a student, helping them with their essay, or even marking, than doing my own research. From most of the academics in my department, I gather that they'd rather be doing research all the time, and see teaching as an unwelcome necessity.
I work in the arts (film, specifically) and have yet to see any teaching-only contracts advertised, ever. I have worked as employability adviser for undergrads and absolutely loved the work, so an advisory role in Careers might be something I'd like to do.I think I'm naturally a helper, and I just like working with people in way that's useful to them.
Obviously, it might come down to a question of not continuing in academia because I don't find a job, but I worry that if I were to choose to leave , I'd be letting people down. As I'm sure is the case for lots of people in academia, I've always been a high acheiver. I thought about doing a PGCE to go into school teaching a few years back but my mum, a retired teacher, always said it would be a 'waste' of my intelligence. I've been funded for my PhD and my supervisors have always been very supportive.
I also suffer with anxiety and depression. This got really bad in year 1 of my PhD, as I was on my own all the time. In year 2, I moved into a shared office with other PGRs, and this has helped a lot. But I know I'd be alone a lot if I were a lecturer.
I'm 27, but DH is 38, and we'd like to have a DC before he's 40. I know this is a dilemma women have always faced, but I don't know how DCs would fit into the academic life. So few of the women in my dept have children.
DH works in finance, and has a stressful job. Part of me thinks I should turn my attention to work that is more suited to me, but part of me thinks I should just accept that life is hard, and it's normal to feel dreadful before going into work on a Monday morning, as he does.
I'm so sorry this has turned into a ramble, but for those of you who work/worked in academia, could I ask you a few questions?
- Did you get into your field for research or because you wanted to teach?
- How is your work/life balance, if you have DCs?
- If you have left academia, why? And how did you get on afterwards?
Thank you so much, ladies, any advice is welcome.