I'm a general manager of a fairly small company, and it was brought to my attention yesterday that someone has accused me of bullying. This was told in confidence to one of the business directors, and therefore I'm not technically supposed to know about this.
I'm absolutely devastated by this, and can only think of one incident which could have been the cause of the accusation. I have asked the accuser on a number of occasions to come and see me to do a return to work interview after they were sick a few weeks ago. On 2 or 3 occasions they have said they'd come and see me but did not do so. The other day I sent them a message asking them to do so as a matter of urgency as it is now 2 weeks since they were sick.
I barely see this person and so have absolutely no idea if there is any other incidence they could be referring to.
I now feel bullied myself, by having what I believe is an unfair accusation levelled at me for simply doing my job. I'm 25 weeks pregnant, feeling very vulnerable and I don't feel that I'm being supported by the business directors in this matter. I appreciate that they have to appear to be impartial but the accuser is a well-known troublemaker who has a history of throwing their toys out of the pram as soon as things do not go their way.
The stress is obviously doing me no good at all but I'm not the sort of person who would just go off on the sick, pregnant or not.
I still have the return to work interview hanging over my head and can't bring myself to ask them once again to come and see me. In the circumstances I'd really like one of the directors to do this instead of me.
I have no idea what will happen but am very worried about the whole situation. Does anyone have any advice at all? Help!
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Accused of bullying, very distressed
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stowsettler · 02/11/2012 12:13
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