I have no clue how to deal with this at all. About 2 weeks ago my mother suddenly started to talk mumbo jumbo. My cousin took her to hospital where they did a ct scan and they said there was a mass on the brain, they asked if it was cancer and they were non committal and my mother discharged. Her gp came in and said by looking at the scan there is nothing to indicate cancer just there is a swelling and it looks possible it could have been a mini stroke and was given steroids. Following this my mother has since had a full MRI and another CT scan. Since then she has fallen over twice at home and is now living with my cousin until I can get there on Sunday. We are supposed to be getting the results of the scans on Tuesday. I know it is too early to speculate and google is not really the best invention when you are in this situation as your imagination tends to run riot after reading certain things. I have an open return train ticket and I need to be back home for certain things and to restart work. I have a husband who works extremely long hours, is away a lot, a teenager about to start 6th form and we are waiting for gcse result and a 10 year old. I have no idea how or what to do long term with my mother. If you have read this far thank you! I have no idea if a care home would be an option (she has money so can pay for care), she has never liked living alone since my dad died 2 years ago, which I can understand. But if whatever it is is recoverable from, I am not sure emotionally she will cope after having had time living with my cousin and then me for the next few weeks. Its all just a bit arghhhh. Any advice greatly received.
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What do you do when you're an only child and you live miles from your sick parent?
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Theoldonesarealwaysbest · 24/07/2014 17:20
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