This is difficult - my MIL (100% working mentally) wants to set up two lasting powers of attorney - the financial one and the health/wellbeing one.
She has asked my husband and BIL (her two sons) to be attorneys for the health and wellbeing one, and her "financial advisor" to be the financial one.
We've never met the financial advisor - we know his name but nothing else. He is someone my deceased FIL employed to do tax returns, and he's remained involved with my MIL's finances since. She has a yearly meeting with him and representatives from her bank so we assume he is bona fide!
But, I am uncomfortable with a stranger potentially being able to control her finances - am I over-thinking this? DH thinks it's her choice. If it were MY mother I could have a conversation with her about how I feel, he's not really willing to do this with her. Its none of my business, is it?
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essexisnotallitseems · 12/07/2014 18:34
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