Ds suffers from very bad constipation and every so often we have to medicate him to get it going (usually done during school holidays etc) so misses little time from school. However, it became apparent a couple of weeks ago that it really needed doing again and couldnt wait until summer hols so 2 weeks ago he missed a whole week from school whilst he was tried with some new medication (Movicol) in place of the very aggresive Picolax. Well expecting a reasonable result (and having to give him a dose every 1-1.5 hours) he stayed off school and saw the GP on the Monday and on the Friday. By the Monday still nothing but his backside started to leak poo (not nice) so once again had to miss the start of another week and I stopped giving Movicol (agreed with GP). By the Wednesday it had pretty much stopped and we saw GP again who examined him and confirmed the impaction was still there so prescribed suppositories (nice!) Anyway desperate to go back to school and give his backside a rest, he returned on Thursday and Friday (on the agreement that Friday evening we start again). So back at school yesterday and last night his backside had become slushy again so off today.
Well I spoke with the school nurse yesterday morning and explained where we were with the poo situation etc. Well this evening she rang me and asked if ds had been to school today and was very adamant he see a doctor today or tomorrow. Now this sounds very nice of her but she actually saw him at school yesterday and had no reason to think he wasnt there today UNLESS the school contacted her or worse (which is genuinely going through my mind) the Education Welfare people. I have kept them informed of the situation throughout without divulging too much detail to save my ds's embarrassment (plus I feel its much the same as telling a docs receptionist what you want to see the doctor about). So what I want to know is:
(a) do they have a duty to inform the authorities if a child has been absent for more than x number of days per year without informing hte parent?
(b) will it be documented on my ds's school record?
(c) can I see my ds's school record to see what they've actually said?
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jampots · 05/07/2005 19:08
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