I've had a letter home from school that DS teacher wants me to come in as there are issues about his behaviour that I need to be aware of.
in summary the year started fine, he joined forces with another boy who is outright silly - he has taught DS to swear and my son basically copies him being an idiot. I watch my son mix with him his eyes glaze over and it's like a switch being flicked. DS got moved onto idiot boys table in school and his behaviour has deteriorated since then.
at parents evening we agreed to a reward chart for DS to improve his silly behaviour in class, it's been going 3 weeks - week 1 13/20 smiley faces, week 2 19/20 and last week 14/20 so he didn't get any rewards at home at the weekend as they only start at 15 smiley faces.
DS has told us that he was with idiot boy today and another boy X was there, apparently idiot boy and X aren't allowed to play together so my DS tried to get them to go to the teacher, X took DS cap off him so he pushed him over, the other boy cut both his knees, he is a lot smaller than DS, DS got told off for pushing and told that X was a lot weaker than him.
I feel like I'm at the end of my tether, I'm so upset tonight, my stomach is churning, I'm going to see DS teacher tomorrow and DH and I have told DS not to play with this boy, and I want his teachers to seperate them in class too.
I'm prepared to work with the school to help modify his behaviour but I want their help too - will I be making an unreasonable request
please help me get some perspective on this
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shades1 · 21/11/2005 18:50
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