Went to ds parents evening on Monday and came home in tears
She basically told us that he was socially inadequate, his speech needs to be sorted out, that he stabbed anothe pupil in the arm with a pen....it just went on and on. She didn't have anything positive to say except that he had settled in ok. He loves going to school and he is a happy, chatty little boy.
Ds is only four and started in reception in September, as far as we were aware he had settled in nicely and apart from his speech there wern't any major problems. He has been referred to the language and maths department (who help children with language and maths problems) this was 6 weeks ago and he has still not been assessed!!!! We weren't informed of the incident with the pen and neither was the mother of the other child because I asked her. I also work at the school as a teachers assistant so why weren't we informed???!!!
we sent a letter to school the next day saying that we were really upset with what was said at the meeting and that we wanted to be kept informed of ds's progress etc, and that we wanted to be assessed asap so that we can take it further if needs be, not sure if there is a genuine problem with his speech or if it is just a delay ( he was a late starting to talk)
Now the teached wants a meeting with dh and me to discuss the letter (wtf) we also sent a letter to the headteacher so that we can push for his assessment with the LMD.
Has anyother mumsnetter had these problems or any teachers that can give their views of what to do next, we just want what is best for ds
Thanks
By the way we don;t live in the UK but ds goes to a fee paying British school
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Horrendous Parents Evening......advise needed please....sorry long!!!
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inthepink · 17/11/2005 08:02
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