I've been with my partner for almost 5 years and we have a 1yr old girl. I'm absolutely fed up with his selfishness. Before meeting him I haven't had too many relationships and I just want to know if you were me, you would leave. We both work and I actually earn more, he's incredibly tight with money and quite often I will overpay my share due to him not fronting up with the cash or not bothering to get pills paid. I run my own business AND take care of picking up and dropping of our daughter at daycare. I barely have time to myself and yet he naps EVERY weekend. I'm often out alone with my daughter at parks or the beach because he can't be bothered or it's not something he wants to do.
If he loses his temper in public he has no problem shouting at me in front of other people. I have tried to leave several times but he makes me feel guilty about our daughter not having a father or makes my life difficult by not watching her as I shower or putting her to bed. He actually seems like a very nice guy to outsiders and does love and take care of his daughter but I can't stand everything else.
Trust me I have tried talking to this guy but being 10years older than me he is very set in his ways. Firstly would you leave? Secondly how would you go about it?
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Selfish spouse - I want out
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manamum · 30/07/2014 00:50
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