I am new to this, so here it goes. I've been with my husband for the last 12 years. For the last 3 years it hasn't felt like a relationship any more. I have tried and tried to talk to him he promises change but he doesn't. We don't go out anywhere, his family puts me down and he just lets them. Every family get together I dread. My sister is supportive but I'm worried about my children. He is a fantastic dad to our children. He buys them anything. I have become fully reliant on him after giving birth to our second child and giving up my career to be a nurse. I just feel trapped. My 16 year old old has said it's not all about the romance though and that at 35 I'm too old to want that. I just feel really confused as to what to do. I love him but I'm not in love. We don't do anything as a couple and I dread spending the next 20 years doing the same. Any honest advice will be listened to thank you.
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16/07/2014 21:36
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