oh god what do I do, he's going to come home and is accusing me of hitting the children!!

[bella1968]

this links to my previous post only now the police lady called me to advise that my H has called them saying his solicitor advised him to go back to the house and that he is giving them notice in case anything happens, he's now accusing me of hitting the children!!!!!!

oh my god oh my god. I've called the solicitor and school and advised them. There's nothing I can do I can't stop him only now think about what I'm going to do next!! divorce I think! but what on earth is he accusing me of hitting the children for!! I've hit my son once which is why it was referred to social services, went into school to add to that report and advise what has been happening.................... h verbally, emotionally, physically (albeit only pushing me twice) abusing me and my 10 year old children.

He's started a war, I'm dreading going back tonight! the only reason after the non-mol/occupation order was rescinded on 26th June that he didn't go back to the house was that he told the children that I was dangerous and that I would call the police and have him arrested.

help any advice please

[twizzleship]

get this moved over to relationships board where more experienced posters can give you better advice.

i would get another non-mol order against him asap citing his threatening and abusive behaviour and the fact that you are scared for yours and the kids safety given the accusations he's making. if you can't stop him coming back to the house then either you leave with the children or you call the police on him the first night he's back....because you know full well he's going to get nasty and kick off with you. remember emotional and psychological/mental abuse also falls under the domestic violence umbrella so use it to your advantage.