My husband took me to court for shared residency, day pior to court he applied for full residency! He failed and we have a contact order. Which was rushed and complied with detail but without thought of its longevity. Ironically he has less contact now than before court action.
My Ex is inflexible and consequently the contact order is imprisoning us, no movement for spontanous invitations, holidays, activities (such as dance exams, residentials) without involving his solicitor. My ex refuses to allow his daughter to conduct activites and or attend parties in His contact time again unless solicitos involvement and much pleading.
The hostility is entrenched. I have receieved in excess of 50 letters and emails from his solicitor in 6 months!
I have returned to court to vary the order (as it dose not work and consider any change in cirsumstance) under emtional and phycological abuse. I hold little hope and expect to be just told off at the final hearing, for failing to communicate amicably.
I am still receiving threats from my Ex solicitor, only yesterday it was a preventions steps order, even through I had consulted him over the matter of concern.
I can not believe I am to put up with written threats and weekly 'tellings off' form my ex solicitor whom I have reported to the appropriate complaints body, whom are unable to investiagte until the case is closed; that will be in 9 years when my daughter is 18!
Is there a civil action I can take. How do I stop this emtional bullying. Its is physiological violence.
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Emotional bullying within in a Contact order
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ELR14 · 05/07/2014 15:15
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