Hello. This is my first post so please be gentle. I have no idea what to do and have no one to talk to.
In January last year I had a molar pregnancy. Although we weren't seriously trying we were both delighted about the pregnancy. Initially my husband was very supportive after the molar pregnancy and I know he was upset. I thought I was fine and we would just try again after the six month wait for the all clear. However I naively thought I would get pregnant again straight away but didn't. I became more and more depressed and my husband showed less and less interest in trying. Things came to a head over Xmas and we contemplated separating. We started counselling and things seemed to be back on track. However my husband told me a couple of weeks ago that he had real concerns about being a father and needed to take time to work through that. That would be fine if I wasn't 35 and we hadn't already been referred for fertility testing. My husband can give no guarantees what his answer will be or when he can give it. The thought of not having children is beyond devastating and I can't believe my husband has done this when he knows how important it is to me. I am thinking of leaving him because I feel I will resent him forever. I also no longer trust him. I however love him very much and at my age it's probably too late to meet someone new and have a child particularly when I suspect I have fertility issues. What should I do?
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Should I leave my husband
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Mylo16 · 29/06/2014 14:00
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