6 month bump 1 year hump. Help

[Elleann]

Probably not my best plan to msg when I'm feeling so rubbish but I need help. I have two lovely sons who are wonderful and a boyfriend who is great with them. They don't see their biological dad. Trouble is my bf has been kinda moody and always tired. He said he said today he felt like getting away and went to his mum and dads. I have had little or no response from him about how long he would be. He then said he is staying the night at his parents!! I am annoyed as i think he planned to stay away when he left. Now I am the crazy drunk one (according to him) I am sober btw, acting crazy etc.. I had a bad gut feeing when he left too.
I may have over reacted here. Anyway we have now fallen out and I am dreading seeing him tomorrow. When did I become a nightmare and do relationships ever work after breaking up with kids dad.
I am starting to regret getting too involved with someone else and now feel I'm going to get hurt all over again.
Responses welcome and be honest xx
Thanks for listening

[Mumyum1]

Don't overthink things would be my advice. I usually do, and then speak to DH as though he were in my head having the crazy conversation I was just having with resident voice in head. And from that point has stemmed numerous arguments. I would suggest when you see him tomorrow, give a hug, say you hope he's feeling better, sorry for going a bit OTT or something like that. Sometimes one partner just needs a bit of space and to say it out loud might seem hurtful, when in reality all one would've wanted was honesty. Though if he had said it, you might have preferred he kept it to himself and just sorted it? Just a thought!!

[Elleann]

Thank you for your reply. He came home but is so angry and now wants to leave me. I'm gutted but I guess I deserve it. I can't believe I have to start all over again.

[Mumyum1]

Wow. Sorry to hear that. How long were u together? I don't think it had anything to do with your rant, if that's all it took then I have to say you're prob better off without him. Your boys too!!

[Elleann]

Yeah your right. He has left now anyway. :((((((( hate relationships sometimes

[twizzleship]

he was probably looking for a excuse to break up with you - some 'men' are just cowards like that.