My DH and I are having problems and I don't know how to fix them. Does something like Relate really work? Don't you just hear more of each others' complaints and have more to argue about? I don't feel ready to give up, but we are definitely not happy at the moment.
We have two young children and have had some stressful times - making us further apart rather than being more of a team. Family illness, redundancy, kids don't sleep so we hardly see each other, no sex life.
We gripe at each other and I feel that he undermines my parenting - saying yes to the kids to avoid tantrums while I'm the "bad guy" who says no.
I am depressed but haven't started medication or counselling yet. I know everything is linked - I can't tell if I am angry with him because I'm depressed, or depressed because our marriage is failing. Sorry for rambling. Has anyone been through similar?
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Can relationship counselling save us? Or is needing help the beginning of the end of us as a couple?
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CarrotsAndApples · 10/05/2014 21:23
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