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Divorce/separation

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Celynfour · 08/05/2014 21:37

Might be long...
Split up 16 months, he walked. New fiancée within months. 3 sc
Drink/addiction an issue.
We are mainly polite but it spills over.
He lives in USA . When he is here he comes for tea play kids etc every day.
He's on deeds but is marital home. I changed locks when he told me he lost keys . He had been drinking heavily and told me had got into a fight.
He wNts keys and shouts abt it a lot. We have a lodger, I think keys not necessary as he can come everyday. Also said in writing that I will make it possible for him to come whenever suits so he can 'assess his assets' his words.
He lost it at me last night on FaceTime. Screaming swearing threatening accusing me of stealing his money threatening to change locks when I'm at work kids and I can f... o.. And live in B and B for all he cares. Says he can legally put door in. Went on and on. Said to me if I tell my solicitor what he said he will make things worse for me. Scared me.
What to do? Am I being unreasonable?

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Nappaholic · 14/05/2014 23:44

Tell your solicitor...he won't know that you have, as s/he won't tell him unless you want her/him to. You should get advice on your options...having yr ex come to the house is not ideal when tensions are high...

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