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How would you deal with/feel about this - ex spending time with DS(3) >>>

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quirkycutekitch · 01/05/2014 22:20

We only split up one month ago so still finding our feet and I want it to as amicable as possible.

He had him on the weekend and ex told me on Sunday he had to do work so DS was with exMIL all day. Tonight he was supposed to bring him home so he can go to Preschool in the morning, but rang me to tell me DS had fallen asleep while he was out for a run so is putting him to bed at exMILs and will bring him back in the morning.

I'm so annoyed that he is not actually spending time with DS when he has him especially because the split is so recent but I don't want to rock the boat at this stage put part of me wants to say - if you are not with him then bring him home!

He sees him Wed evening after work, Thursday after work and has been picking up late Sat morning and bringing him back Sunday Evening.

Ex MIL has DS all day Thursday as I work (this has been the arrangement since I went back to work when DS was 1) so it's not a case that she is seeing him less since the split.

Need advise please!

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sykadelic · 23/07/2014 02:36

Who he gets to "babysit" while he has contact isn't your business unfortunately.

Sure, I agree it would be my preference too, but that's his contact time so if he wants to squander it, that's on him.

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