Long one but bear with me..
Was with ex partner for 12 years. Have DS 10. Been split up for 2 years. When DS was 6 months old we remortgaged my mums house and mortgaged it with the 3 of us (me,ex p and my mum). We all lived in the house together with my siblings as well.
When we split up he continued to pay the mortgage and no maintenance for a year. Now he makes no contribution to mortgage but does pay maintenance monthly ( a family based arrangement - which I am happy with)
This month he has declared he wants me and my mum to agree to sell the house or remortgage again so he can have his equity and remove his name from the mortgage. Neither of which are really a financial option for me and my mum. He is now saying he will take us to court and I would just like as much help/info/advice as I am able to get from anyone with experience etc
I know it's a very unique situation but finances are stretched and I don't have the funds to see a solicitor at the moment and I ended up waiting at citizens advice for hours when we split up!
Thanks in advance x
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L4dyluck · 13/02/2014 18:02
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