I posted recently about my impending divorce papers reaching my stbxh and how sad this made me feel. I'm starting to wonder if I'll ever get over him, I know that if he walked into the house tomorrow saying he'd made a huge mistake I'd be the happiest girl in the world. We've been separated for 9 months & I still think of him what feels like every minute of every day. I miss him so much it hurts. We separated because of what seemed like a mid life crisis on his part - no longer wanting to be part of family life, illicit texting a work colleague & saying he'd fallen out of love with me. I still don't feel any hatred towards him and would welcome him back with open arms. I started divorce proceedings to allow me to get over him but nowI fear I never will and I'm ruining any chance of us reconciling. It's such a terrible position to be in.
He's never shown any wish for reconciliation and has started a new single life of his own but when he's at the house with the dd's we fall into such a familiar pattern that feels so natural.
Am I clutching at straws?
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Will I ever get over him?
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Florabella22 · 18/01/2014 21:07
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