Hi my ex says that he's moving into a shared house with friends. He expects our DS to stay there on the 2 nights a week he has him. (DS is 2) I feel very uncomfortable about this.
I don't know these people, and as far as I am aware DS doesn't know one of them either and has only met the other one a couple of times. From the little information my ex will share with me, the two housemates work with vulnerable people in a care home and so I would think that they have passed CRB checks. However I am not comfortable with DS staying in a house with people I don't know and anyone else they might decide to have stay over (they are both single and young so the likelihood that they might bring home strangers is probably quite high).
I have only found out about this today, with my ex planning to move in the next couple of weeks. I feel like ex is making this decision for his own benefit and not putting DS' needs first. I'm really pissed off that he's made this decision without even consulting me, and has point blank refused to consider my point of view.
I don't think i have any rights to stop him moving in with them, and I wouldn't want to stop DS from seeing his dad, but at the same time my primary concern is to ensure DS is safe and secure. Has anyone got any advice for me?
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2yr old in a shared house
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DebbieTheUnreasonable · 05/01/2014 20:16
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