My marriage has basically been over for the last 2.5years but I stupidly stayed for the kids stability.
H was in a foul mood today, he'd promised yesterday to take kids to see something today then when they kept asking when they were going he snapped
'Its fucking pissing down you expect me to go out in they?'
I pointed out that he had promised (and made a big deal out of going too)
He stomped out with them - they were only gone 45mins.
I was cooking dinner when they came back & kids were playing with a ball indoors H told them to stop , they carried on bickering over who was having the ball.
I shouted through that dinner was ready , as H was getting kids to sit up ds didn't respond fast enough & dd started whining
He just flipped - he got right up to dd's face (4yrs) and yelled in her face 'I've had enough of this, no one in this fucking house listens to a word I say' I came in & got between them - H then shouted at Ds (6years) can't remember the words but he then grabbed Ds by his shoulders/ top of arms picked him up carried him over to the sofa & put him down.
Ds & Dd in tears - I shout don't you ever lay a infer on them again , how dare you so that.
H gets an inch from my nose & shouts 'yeah why you gonna so huh?'
I'm SO mad I slap him across the face & he grabs me around the back of the neck, then pushes me away.
I flipped at this point , shouting at him to leave us alone.
He sees windows are open so goes to close them in fear of neighbours hearing but I jump In front saying let them hear.
He then carries on 'you're no wife to me & you haven't been for the last 3 years'
I say we'll its truly the end now - you done this before & I swore I'd never let you do it again so that is it, over.
He tells me to go with kids as its his house (joint mortgage) & to not dare spend a penny of 'his money' (he works I'm a sahm)
Then he says ok I'll go
The kids are now sobbing with fright & dear of losing daddy
After an hour I manage to calm them enough to stop crying.
Ds has red marks on arms & body , Dd keeps saying why did daddy hurt my feelings?
Where do I go from here?
I'm unable to afford to keep house on as I'm a sahm
Have no family near by
Have no friends with space to put us up even temporarily
Sorry it's a mammoth post - needed to get it all out
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In a state, H lost temper with DC's , it's over
devonsmummy · 20/10/2013 20:50
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