Hi, my husband and I are separating. We have 3 children and own our own house. My husband is a high earner and I have just started work part time ( on a very low wage). I don't really want to move the children out of the house, but my husband says that by not selling the house, this will ' leave him in the shit,' because he won't be able to get a decent place for our children to go to.
I don't know his exact wage, but it's high. I feel sure he could afford somewhere. My question is, does anyone know what the rights of a mother in this situation are? I have a friend in a similar situation, she got advised by her solicitor, that she should stay put in the house until her youngest child is 18.
I know that my husband will have to pay maintenance, but I'm unsure how much financial input he would have towards bills-if any. It's a big house and is hard to keep warm. I feel that he is not putting the children's needs first ie) they don't want to move, have friends near by etc. what do you think. Thanks to you all.
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Doughnut123 · 02/09/2013 00:12
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