This is it

[mrsslc]

My marriage is over. I am 100% sure. But I have no one in real life so I am telling you! I truly have had enough, and I feel sadder that I have no one to tell than I am that my 6 year marriage is over.

[margot1962]

Why do you think that?

[margot1962]

There must be someone you can tell? A relative? Maybe google a local support group where you could speak one to one (if you can't tell your husband). Good luck.

[mammadiggingdeep]

You're telling us.....if you need to 'talk' then posting on mn can help. R u ok?

[mrsslc]

Thank you for the reply.
I guess during normal daytime hours I would tell my sister, I know she's expecting it, he's put me through a lot over the years and today is just another thing to add to the list!
He is very selfish, tells a lot of lies and is very unsupportive as a husband and father. He is at home as little as possible and spends even less time with the kids. I'm a single parent all but on paper ( this is something several family and friends have said to me, I've ignored it this long in favour of financial stability, wrong I know)
I am currently exhausted but cannot sleep as he is in the pub and has no keys to get in, I reminded him to pick them up hours ago and he chose not to. He can walk our house going from the pub he was in to the one he is now in, to collect his keys, but didn't. This means I can't sleep and he knows it. This is his control you see.

[Notenjoyinglife]

I hope you are ok. It sounds like a nightmare. Make sure that you get legal advice as soon as possible. In my experience men like this can be very manipulative and good at maintaining control. If you are sure it is over then it can be very heartening to get good legal advice as it gives a bit of control back to you.
Best wishes