Can anyone advise me as to what to expect please? I mean what to expect in terms of the experience, not the outcome. My stbx and I cannot agree with regards to the care of our children. They are 14 and 11. I have always been a sahm and he is usually out at work from 6am-9pm.
He is saying he will change his life and possibly his job (he is a professional working in the City), and would like the children to be with him week on/week off. He is saying he will get childcare if necessary from when they come home from school until he returns home.
I would like alternate weekends and that he has the children on a Wednesday on his 'weekend' and a Wednesday and Thursday on mine.
I just don't know what to expect in terms of formality, etc...little things like do we all sit around the table - will the mediator try to put us at ease (I assume so), and what happens if we just don't agree still? Anything regarding the actual experience would help me know what to expect. Thank you.
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jenny99 · 29/07/2013 22:21
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