Has anyone stayed in the family home with children and paid their ex a lump sum as their share of the equity?
Can you give me some advice as to how you decided how much he (or she) received?
I've been told that as the main child carer I should be entitled to a larger share of the equity so was thinking along the lines of a 60/40 split in my favour, however H has been to see a solicitor today who seems to think he should request a 50/50 split.
I earn more than him, and his earnings are low so he wouldn't be in a position to give me much in the way of maintenance. I'm preparing to have to pay for everything myself without getting anything extra from him, including most of the dcs expenses (they're 11 & 6) although he has said he will give me 'some' money for them if he can.
I can afford to pay bills etc on the family home by myself, and could remortgage to get a lump sum to buy his share, but I can't get enough to give him a 50/50 share. I really don't want to have to sell up straight away as the children are settled here, but accept that I might have to to give him his share. I'd prefer to wait 6mths-1yr before putting the house up for sale - can I do that?
I'm going to see a solicitor soon to look at my options but if anyone has done this I'd really appreciate some advice. Many thanks
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RollerCola · 29/07/2013 13:44
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