Hello MNers counting on you to have some good information for me. My STBX doesn't see our 4 year old DD very often, and when he does, it has to be on his terms. I ask to have her home at a reasonable hour and he keeps her as long as he likes. He took her away for the weekend to his mum's without telling me. I would have been fine with it and always am, but it would have helped me to know what to pack for my DD and she always likes to know where she is going. I think at a time of so much uncertainty, it is important for me to be able to tell her where she is going to be. She likes to pack, accordingly will take different books and toys to grandma's, for instance, than to dad's. However, he continues to do as he likes, and I get a wound up, cranky child who can't wake up for nursery (and then I'm late for work on top of it). He is making the situation far more stressful than it already is, just to prove he doesn't need to do what I ask of him.
Is there any way to legally force him to behave in this respect? Can I just bar him from seeing her until he agrees to some regular child contact and what the days and hours will be?
What do do in this situation?
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SlimSchadey · 07/07/2013 18:34
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