My STBEH and I are going to court next month to finalise our financial affairs before we get our absolute.
We have just exchanged form E's
My ex only wants to pay £100 a month towards our 2 teenage children, (£12.50 per child per week) and have 50% of the equity in the house, so he can afford a nice flat for when the kids come and stay. Our house is valued at the same price he wants to buy a flat for.
The children stay with him 2 nights a month... if that as he's forever canceling.
I did agree to the equity bit in our seperation agreement as he lived in the family home for nearly a year before moving out, and in with his new GF. He was abusive, always shouting at me and the kids, and threatening to sell the house and make us homeless.
I actually would have signed anything to get rid of him.
I am engaged to my BF but don't live together, her lives 70 miles away, but does stay several times a week. We have no plans to get married at the moment.
My ex thinks that my BF should support me and the kids.
My solicitor says that BF could die tomorrow and that EX's needs to support his kids.
Has anyone been through something simular? or give me some idea of what happens in court, my solicitor says that the Judge would never agree to the above as the children aren't being provided for.
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Magicmayhem · 17/06/2013 00:36
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