I'm moved by many of the situations on this topic with women being treated very poorly, but equally irritated by the one I find myself in. My husband was divorced about 15 years ago, his children are now adults. We also have a school aged child. However, we are still paying well over £1000 a month to his ex-wife in maintenance. Now whilst my husband has had a good income, this has been something we could cope with - and at this point his income is still healthy enough to manage this. However as far as we can see, and have been advised, we are tied in to pay this amount for the whole of her life.
My husband has suffered some serious health problems four year ago, which he thankfully recovered from, but he is still having to work extremely hard to support all of us (none of his children are totally self supporting, and two will probably moved back in with us soon to re-enter education of one sort or another).
My husbands ex-wife has worked on and off for the years since they have been divorced. She is well qualified and could work more if she needed to. Now all we are looking to be able to do is to know we stop the maintenance payments when he is 65 so he can look forward to a worry free retirement.
Before anyone asks, it is very, very unlikely that she will remarry.
Had anyone had any experience of a situation of this sort?
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50andcounting · 10/04/2013 16:14
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