Dh left me and dc last Wednesday as he says he doesn't love me anymore. He is staying at his mums and coming here everyday to put the children to bed and have tea. The dc aged 4 and 7 don't know what's going on as they are used to him being home for tea but not in the mornings so for them at the moment nothing has changed.
I am able to put on a happy act while they are around as this came totally out of the blue, came home one day while dc were at school and he had packed bag and gone.
We are due to go on holiday tomorrow the 4 of us and we are still going. He hasn't decided if he wants to stay at his mums or come home but he knows he doesn't love me. I want him to come home as we get on so well its like nothing changed especially as we were never a huggy couple anyway. Is it possible to stay in the same house and live almost as room mates to save the dc the heartbreak of splitting up? Has anybody done this or am I clutching at straws?
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is it possible to separate and be friends?
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2anddone · 04/04/2013 07:29
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