DH and I are going to separate. Together 12 years, married 6 years, two children (8 and 4). I have instigated the separation as the atmosphere between us has been awful for a year. It isnt really anyone's fault. The love just isnt there any more.
What now? I am going to see a solicitor next week but really have no clue as to what we should do. I am about to start a full time job after working sporadically since the kids were born. He is self employed and makes OK ish money. We have a mortgage together on our house.
We both envisage we will somehow share custody / childcare, as we are both hands on parents. But how?
I feel totally clueless and frightened.
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BadAsssss · 29/03/2013 13:57
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