H has walked out on me and our children for another woman. I am looking at divorce and have met witha solicitor. I seem to have got my head around the divorce process but am not sure how finances come in. As I see it, which could well be wrong so please jump in, I file for divorce, he will agree and it will all go through, then kind of seperate to this we have to sort out the house and any money we have now. If we don't agree on this what happens, does the divorce process stop?
I also assume we need to sort out maintenance payments together. If he says he is just giving me the CSA ammount when I feel he can afford and should pay more what happens then? Can he be made to, say, give me more of the house or more money than he wants, and if he can how does that work? I think tbh he is seeing a nice big wad of money coming his way along with his freedom and he will not be happy if he thinks I am getting more than half even though I will be bringing up his two children while he dallies off (he works fulltime I gave up work when kids born, joint decision at the time)
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Divorce, the money and maintenance
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leftfootrightfoot · 21/03/2013 09:01
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