Bit of a strange situation but it's really affecting me. My wife has decided that she 'doesn't feel the same way about me' and is thinking about us splitting up. We have two children of 8 and 6 and we have as far as I can tell, a happy life. The strange bit is that we both still get on really well, do things together as a couple, even sometimes still have sex, so I'm not sure what the problem actually is..!
We will have a really nice day out, or a nice night out and get on really well, and then in the morning she'll still say that there's no 'spark' and she doesn't feel anything for me. It's like a kick in the teeth.
I can't begin to work out how we would actually separate too if it came to it... I can't afford to move out and don't see why I should if it's my wife who wants out, and my wife only works 12hrs a week so she won't be able to move out either.
I just don't understand what's going on. She can be so distant sometimes, but other times is fine.
I used to be a happy go lucky confident person and am now having counselling and on ADs and sleeping pills because of this..
:-(
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Wife thinking of leaving me
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northernsurreydad · 14/03/2013 11:39
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