Hi all, I am new but really need to talk to people in same position.
I have been married for 26 years to a very selfish controlling man and i have finally plucked up courage to leave him.
I have set up own bank account and am looking for a house as i do not want to stay in our house, and i have had legal advice also.
If you have done this please tell me how you told OH you were leaving, and when?
I know he will try to get me to stay and heap guilt on my shoulders to make me stay, he will also do same to our child who is 14, but will have to live with me if nothing more than school and life reasons.
Part of me feels it is unfair to spring it on him although we are very unhappy but for self preservation and to keep my fragile self confidence going i dare not tell him till i have somewhere to go.
Thanks for all ideas
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How and when to tell him? help please?
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sarahe14 · 16/02/2013 14:13
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