Our separation has been a bit drawn out and exDP gone from staying regularly in the spare bed to now living in a (grotty) B&B. Circumstances prevent exDP getting a room or flat for the next few months so DS1 can't visit him (I think it would be confusing and not a nice environment to visit his dad). We had just been saying 'daddy is going to work' but since exdDp is unemployed and has massive mental health issues, visits are erratic at best, and not consistently for dinner or at weekend and even with a 2 yr old, I think 'daddy at work' is beginning not to wash !
Is 'Daddy sleeps in a different place now but will visit lots and loves you very much' enough information ? He can't see where this other place is. He is a bright, visual child and I think he is getting unsettled with it all, especially tensions when exDp visits. He needs more info but I am worried about what to say and how. Thank you so much for any advice.
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how to explain seperation to 2 yr old
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pesta · 10/02/2013 08:08
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