Hello all, I'm so, so desperate for some advice, please...
After 5 years of an extremely bad marriage, I have decided to definitely go ahead with a divorce. We have 3 children, aged 4, 3 and 11 months.
Several times during this marriage myself and my DCs have been made to leave "home" as I haven't paid for it. This has happened countless times in the last 5 years, living apart for sometimes a week, sometimes several months. The lack of stability, a normal home, a routine has been damaging to our DCs.
Each time we are made to leave, he makes no effort towards contacting or seeing our DCs. But then suddenly he remembers his kids and decides to become fatherly. On this occasion it's been 4 weeks since they last saw him. He now wants to collect them on Saturday for the day. Should I tell him to go court as this has happened far too many times and it causes our children a lot of confusion. My 4 year old cant stand him and my 3 year old has developed anxiety according to my GP. I just want to protect them.
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At my wits end with nonsense marriage!
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Striving · 18/01/2013 05:43
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