I left my husband over a year ago for another man. I have not taken anything from my husband, he's kept all his pension although I spent 10 years raising the children. We've sold the marital home and split money 50:50. He doesn't pay maintenance and he sees the children as often as he wants.
My ex husband has a new partner but he still seems obsessed with me and what I've done.
I get numerous texts and emails daily from him, telling me how cruel and evil I've been, how I've ruined the children's lifes, how I should kill myself to atone for what I've done.
I've accepted this for a year now as part of his grieving process, but now I feel it's gone on too long and is becoming abusive.
How long do I have to put up with this?
I do feel guilty for what I've done but I feel now it is time to move on with our lives for both our sakes and the children's.
The constant reminding me of how bad I've been have left me immobilised and not able to move on withy life.
Can anyone advise, or do I deserve this harrasment for what I've done?
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Ongoing harrassment from ex husband
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Hilary911 · 11/01/2013 17:17
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